He had nothing but great things to say about the church and especially the pastor, and he is a very discerning man. I really appreciated your commentary, Brad. I get scared just thinking about this stuff.

I know that these ministers never set out to do something like this. I know my own ability to sin. Thanks for reminding me of the call to Christ, not the church.

My prayer is that I would always find my identity in Him, regardless of the “success” of my church or ministry, and that He would help me overcome the temptations of sin.

The frustrating thing for me above all else has been – why didn’t he cry out for help? Why didn’t we see signs? Where was the accountability? I think you’ve hit it square on the head. The way we’re still “doing church” breeds and feeds these failures and is doing nothing to create the wall of accountability, discipleship and protection around God’s people that He has called us to.

God, give us wisdom and courage to fight through this complacency and ritual.

You are right, of course the system being flawed does not justify any of the wrong doing. But I hope recognizing that the “system” feeds some of the problems raised will prompt us to re-align how we do things and more importantly will force us to reflect on what should be at the core of our Christian walk.

Does the system being flawed, however, make what Rick or Ted or whoever justifiable? I think not. (Not implying you were saying this Brad).

I so long to have my kids grow up in a culture where pastors once again have authority to change the world, not because of title but because of integrity. I hope that I can help change that.

Thanks for stirring me.

I should have said that (although not surprised) I’m deeply saddened and grieving along with those who love him and his church. It simply hurts so much that it’s tempting to be cynical rather than feel the real weight of such a sad development.